Listen now (40 min) | Relendra discusses The Iron Triangle of Shame, a model that diagrams the relationship of shame, duty, and self-worth in the construction of an obedience complex of codependency and demoralization. She describes the formation of the Iron Triangle of Shame, and contrasts this to The Living Triangle of Love, an alternative model of love, gift, and personal sovereignty that flows from an inherent base of self-worth.